How do you create lasting change?

Top Tips for change

Gabby Bernstein reveals her top tips on how to create lasting change in your life. Gabby is a New York Times Best-Selling Author.

She is been on CNN, Oprah a speaker at Google and TedX Women. Gabby comes from a spiritual background and for those who are not into that way of seeing things don’t worry, there are some really practical stuff. Below are the three things she recommends. She has even used her approach to give up coffee. We all know how hard this is!!

-Make sure you really want it

-Ensure the goal ignites a positive feeling within you

-Be willing to maintain that desire for the goal every day

There is also a bit at the end about forgiveness so that you can create change based on strong  foundations that are cleared and ready for new ways, a  new life.

Enjoy!

We are all human

 

 

 

Sometimes things go wrong

Yes, I know, I know, we looked at Marie Forleo last week. Bear with me  on this one- she shares some great insight on something that I think we all do: Beat ourselves up when we do something wrong.

We are human after all, although I know that there are some super moms out there. We all know that sometimes we make a mistakes, especially under pressure. Marie shares excellent tips on how to stop making avoidable mistakes and, what do to do when actually do make a mistake.

Enjoy this one – I know I did!

Are you thinking abut designing your life – then don’t forget about the space around you

Cupcakes and Cashmere

Yes, an unusual name for a site but you won’t be disappointed. This is a stunning blog with great tips on design.  In fact, this is more than a blog, Cupcakes and Cashmere  celebrates the little things in life that make a difference. Check it out and enjoy. Plus have a look at the ‘ask Emily tips’ – they are little gems. 

Returning to work after children, is it just about the money?

What the evidence tells us

Work is the primary source of income for most people,and,  for some,work is just about the money. This is not only natural but ok.  Did you also know, work is generally good for you? Yes, it helps you meet your basic needs of food, shelter and warmth. It does much, much more than that  according to some recent research.  If your are thinking about returning to work after having a child, you might be interested in an independent review by the Department of Work and Pension. The report revealed two interesting facts to help us think about the broader benefits of work:

  • work is central to identity, social roles as well as  social status;
  • your economic status is also linked to physical and mental health and  life expectancy

But there is a caveat, the quality of work is crucial. The  job has to be in a safe environment  and you need to have accommodating boss, for work to be good for you.

If you want to read a bit more about the research, you can find a short overview  here.  If you want to read the whole report press on this link here.

Do you have any personal success stories and experiences that you would like to share about returning to work, you can do so in ‘share your story section’.

Where can you find help about getting into work